India Diary - Day 14

Our departure from the Ashram was abrupt this morning. Some of our party had decided to see the sunrise at 6am whilst others thought the 6. 15 bus was enough of a target. For our room both nearly escaped us as the alarm didn't go off. So in record time 3 showered, dressed, packed and disposed of our beer and snack mementoes and got on the bus for 6. 15.

We then went by bus to the beach to collect others only to discover they were at a different beach. So a little later than scheduled, we left to collect others from Chitra’s village one last time

From here we began our 4 hour journey to Tuticorin - on the map it looked quite close but this is India and nothing is fast or simple apart from the food in street cafes!
We stopped for breakfast and then journeyed on past many sites now familiar- ox drawn carts, crops of bananas, and rice fields

 
 
 
 
 

We arrived in Tuticorin at Chitra's sister's house and met Mary and her son, daughter and husband. We had a wonderful cup of tea - with Chitra now expertly negotiating black and sugarless drinks everywhere we go. The standard here for all hot drinks being with milk and lots of sugar.

The heat here was palpably different. In the colony where Mary and her family live 18 small houses, very typical of our social housing, backed onto a maze of streets which seem to limit the flow of air and therefore added to the heat. These houses are privately rented and have no running water. Small and modest the living room had a small TV, a PC and a fish tank!

Our fans came out when the electricity cuts occurred- a familiar experience which we learned was a consequence of under production of energy which then was rationed or dealt with by cutting supply to all for short periods.

This village is highly industrialised and polluted. It gets very little rain fall. Mary works at a paint factory, and Chitra's cousin, who we met later has a BSc in chemistry, holds a teaching job down and works in her husband’s juicing shop. Others in the village work in the water plant.

We left Mary’s and went to visit friends of Chitra who live in the village. A couple who Chitra had given support to who were unable to have children. Manuel and Melba's home was very different from any we had seen - it reflected prosperity in a nouveau riche kind of way. Bright sunken fluorescent ceiling light, air conditioning, a large Sony TV in a corner built in cabinet and many speakers, brand new teddies on display shelves, large artificial flower displays and a spiral staircase. The main bed room looked more western too with another big TV and multiple speaker sets.

We learnt very quickly that Manuel (trained as an Engineer) was in fact a baker now. Many western looking cakes and pastries for us to eat came out as did the brightest orange soft drink I've ever seen. I was able to decline most but gave into an Indian sweet made of lentils and cashews which was a meal in itself so I got help from Sandra and Jinksy I also partook of the orange pop on the grounds that fluorescencing food whilst to be avoided generally may have some benefits in this climate as so many seem to produce and eat them.

From here we were taken to our hotel. Each room air conditioned but the decor was shabby and everything felt a little less than thoroughly clean. Its great attraction was piping hot water for the shower and an endless stream of curious waiters coming to our room offering and bringing room service in unnecessarily frequent visits.

By now, having packed our 3 sets of belongings in 2 cases to minimise luggage and having discovered we all sleep better together, Sandra, Jinksy and I took one room for 2 between the three of us.

We washed clothes which is now a daily or twice daily task and put up a line on our balcony which over looked the open air restaurant.

We snacked, unpacked, and rested ready for the evening - a trip to the salt mines and then the beach with the extended family.

The salt mines were remarkable. Shallow pools of murky water with hills of salt swept up on the side mud paths. From here, workers scooped unfathomable weights of salt into aluminium tubs and then two of them lifted one bowl onto one of their heads for taking back to the salt mountain near the road. It was a rhythmic and sportsmanlike activity.

From here we went to the beach some of our party; Sandra Sinclair in particular led the fully clothes swimming troupe. Here women in saris, children in various states of dress and in our party men in shorts or underpants jumped and splashed and swam in the Bay of Bengal. This was the hottest sea water I have ever paddled in and it was lovely to feel the warm breeze on our faces. We played and walked and sang until night fell and then went to a cafe for dinner

Our cafe tonight was interesting. The ant trail up the wall provided an interesting watch point as did the ants we swilled off our banana leaves. Jinksy went to loo and came back a lovely shade of green with colourful stories of what she'd seen on route through the kitchen to the bathroom and the state of the loo when she got there.

This added to our excitement of what would come next but Chitra had yet to take us somewhere where the food had not been great. So when dinner arrived this was no exception. We ate up and feeling ready for bed and a decent loo we went back to our hotel.

Partially undressed and in that state between sorting and showering I went out on to the balcony to check the laundry. To my surprise I came face to face (about 8 feet away) with many diners who were directly opposite the balcony. I'm not sure who looked more shocked but I leapt back into the bedroom. Not long after, many waiters appeared at our room offering room service again!

What they must have made of the 3 of us preparing to sleep sideways across our two mattresses - they must have thought the English were even more eccentric then they'd ever previously imagined!

Another great day and the prospects of a lie in tomorrow. Hurrah.

Day Fifteen